Looking for the same thing, a good man who is also a bad boy, with one thing to add. He needs to accept me as to who I am, not what he thinks he can turn me into as I do him.
I understand your angst. I'm a self sufficient pretty lady that either intimidates men or have them just use me for what I have. Just looking for a fun loving teddy bear that wont suck me dry.
The issue is not finding a man who wants to be with a single women the problem is finding a women who will be with one guy and when she finds the right guy and is willing to say the grass is green enough....¿ I wish I could find a women who could do that....
I have only found TWO places on earth¿ wherein some of the men are both TRULY good in terms of kind, honest, loyal, sweet, helpful and so forth and YET "naughty" --------- a biker club is one for the men in the club take the oath of brotherhood seriously and so are FORCED whether they ever wed or go to church or keep a job to learn to endure, share and suffer all for the sake of some adpoted family, the other is AA, some of the guys that go to¿that kind of self help rehab¿are really philosophical, deep, spiritual, ¿smart and yet "naughty".........
All I know is that when I see a couple who really seem connected, respectful of each other and accepting of each other, I think to myself, "I want that!" I just cant seem to find a guy that aint skeered when it comes right down to meeting in person. Big, tall badass looking dudes can totally flake out just like the women being described here. Im just saying...
I sure would like to know where I can find a real man to. When I finally responded to a years worth of winks from one person, it was somewhat of a mess! After that I finally decided that I would try again this time uploading some pictures of me. Good luck to you!
Biggest problem I seem to run into is PSYCHO women. They claim to have either been physically, verbally or mentally abused and then seem to want to take it out on us guys who have done nothing wrong. The other problem is at this age they all seem to going through menopause or that's the excuse I most commonly hear. It's either that or they are to materialistic. Take me for who and what I am and nothing else. Don't lie to me or cheat on me. I don't and don't expect it back that is what always seems to happen at least in my case. I guess I am just to trusting.
We are out here! Problem is every time one of you ladies get one of us you start the changing us thing. And the relationship goes to crap. Try accepting us as we are not how you want us in the future. Good Luck!
